Building Your Confidence in Dating Women

Posted by: | Posted on: February 13, 2017

When it comes to dating (or even seducing) a woman, confidence is vital. Women often equate “self confidence” with the ability to be successful. While many men believe that women look for successful men because they’re likely to make more money, that’s simply not true.

While it’s a given, women actually look for successful men because they’re more likely to be satisfied. So you may be wondering what a man being satisfied has to do with anything. Let me explain. You see, women know that men who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable.

And in a relationship that means a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember that most women are looking for a man who will be their partner as well as their lover.

Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you’re both equals.

When it comes to confidence, it seems there are two kinds of people – those who have it and others who simply don’t. Although on the surface this may be true, everyone has the potential to be “self confident”, or motivated if you would like to call it.

Take heart in knowing that you’re a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you find to be positive character traits that you have. Be comforted to know that NOT all women are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a man who’s confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to a relationship with them!


17 Tips to Write a Killer Personal Ad

Posted by: | Posted on: February 1, 2017

Online dating websites offer the easier and  quicker way for single guys to meet women. The use of online personal ads to get the audience you desire is quite different that picking up a girl in the real life situations. When you meet
her at a bar, party or disco it might be difficult for you to approach her, you may feel embarrassed, but with online dating, it is easier and less stressful.

Therefore, you have made up your mind to put a personal ad, but you are getting none or few responses to your request and no girl is approaching you. Remember that you have to attract women with your online ad. These days
very sophisticated personal ads are appearing in top quality dating sites.

In today’s world of online dating personal ads, have to be witty, informative, and hopefully effective. If you want to get the best personal ad, you must to present the right image, get people to interact you by being friendly and
chatting every day. You should try in every single way possible to prove and show that you are as you have said, including your own personality and characteristics. Writing a personal ad is like writing a love letter, a poem  dedicated to your future partner.

For to increase your success in online dating you have to make your personal ad to be the best. Here are some tips that might help you.

– first and the most important is that you must complete your personal profile fully, to be informative, complete, to make the woman interested

– run spell-check – a profile full of mistakes shows that you are a sloppy, careless type

– add a photograph; ensure that the photo is bright, clear and recent; a perfect picture with the right clothing and a smiled face will have a big effect recording to the visitors of your personal ad;  many people don’t add a profile
photo because they think that they aren’t photogenic; but this is a wrong idea because the profiles that haven’t a photo is much less viewed like the other

– be yourself, be sincere and say what you like and looking for;  be honest, if you are looking just for a casual date because you already have a wife, say it, don’t imply that you are looking for marriage  just to get more details, because this is a waste of time for everyone

– avoid major disclosures – you don’t have to tell everything about yourself in the first paragraph, this will not be interesting anymore

– splatter your profile with humor, drama, funky metaphors, they will draw instant attention and interested

– don’t be aggressive or rude in your personal ad, because this will show that you are not friendly and open for new friends

– communicate – it is important to communicate if you want to make friends and to know better the possible partners

– keep your profile positive and update, so don’t use words like  ”desperate” , hurry to meet someone

– don’t use swear words because are generally offensive and turn people off

– list all the things you like can be a handful; choose one good example and talk about why you like it

– don’t make list of your accomplishments; avoid using personals adjectives like: I’m a spontaneous, creative, honest person

– you can include the things that make up your good points like the fact that you like kids, or  you are told that you are funny

– ask questions to them to answer via email

– also try to response at people messages in a reasonable amount of time, not after a month

– be positive , show that you love life and know how to live it

– be patient; it is true that it takes a time until you meet somebody and get to know her better, but it works

Also in your personal ad, you can include some action phrases, which will express your personality and characteristics. Some of this action phrases are:

– long term relationship – shows the fact that you have the sense of commitment, you are ready for a long relationship

– great personality – express the fact that you have a truly magnificent personality and it’s worth  meeting you

– no baggage – means that you are completely  free of attachments such as a spouse or child

– active and adventurous –  means that you are in a really good shape, physically fit

– ask me anything – shows that you are honest, adventurous and open to sharing details about yourself

Now that you know how to make your personal ad to be the best, I wish you good luck in finding the perfect partner.


Awesome Dating Tips For Shy Guys

Posted by: | Posted on: February 1, 2017

Reading up on dating tips for shy guys can certainly help you make a good impression on your next date. And don’t forget that these dating tips are not just for the shy person going out for the first time. They can help you even if you’re experienced in dating, because it’s easy to forget the basics.

A good tip to remember is not to try to go overboard. She’s not going to expect you to take her to a restaurant that’s going to cost you $100 on your first date. And if she does expect that, you might be better off asking someone else out on a date.

She also shouldn’t expect you to take her on a date that is overly complicated. Keeping it simple is best, especially for first date.

Go for things that are fun and unusual and that will be memorable for her. Go to one of those pizza parlors with the characters in the video games that are usually thought of as being places for little kids. Go to the zoo and buy her cotton candy.

Amusement parks and carnivals are great places for dates. Everybody likes to be a kid now and then. So going to a place like this and riding rides let you be silly for a while.

Don’t forget to play the bottle toss of the ring toss and try to win her prize. Winning your girl a stuffed animal is something that will be great on a date for years to come.

Don’t see an overly serious movie on your first date. Going to see a very heavy show about an historical figure might not be great for first date. But don’t feel you have to go and see the latest, greatest “date movie.”

Choose a movie that’s more neutral than that for a first date. Go see the latest cartoon movie that’s popular for kids and have a silly time. It can be fun to laugh at the things you used to like as a little kid and you may find the movie’s really great anyway.

Choosing fun and quirky things like this can let her see that you just want to have a good time. It can help set her at ease and make her less nervous, which will in turn make you less nervous, too.

If it’s clear to her that you just really want to enjoy yourself, that’s going to impress her. If she can tell you’re not out to try to impress her with an expensive date or trying to be someone you’re not, she’ll notice.

Don’t forget to pay her a compliment, too. It can be easy to forget, especially if you’re nervous. But find something that you like whether it’s her perfume, her clothes or her sense of humor and say something nice about it. She’ll be able to relax because she’ll be less worried about impressing you.

Don’t forget these dating tips for shy guys next time you’re ready to ask someone out.


Surefire Tips to Accelerate Your Seduction Skills

Posted by: | Posted on: February 1, 2017

With what you’ve learned with me so far, you WILL be able to get numbers from women. Lots of them. Now I’m not saying you’ll get the info for every lady that turns your head – plenty of women will be unavailable for various reasons. Some have boyfriends, some are taking a break, some are just in the wrong mood – whatever, it doesn’t matter. You know enough to not let the unavailable women get you down, affect your confidence, or change your playfulness. We’re not worried about them.

And now that you can get the numbers of TONS of women, my job is done, right?

Wrong. This is just the FIRST STEP and you’ve got to remember that. Just because you’ve got a woman interested – and even if you keep your relaxed confidence going – there are plenty of places to stumble.

The Instant Date

Like what? This may surprise you, but you SHOULDN’T take women on dates. That might sound strange, so I’ll phrase it another way.

If you take a woman to dinner and a movie, you’re asking to be strung along like a knitting club’s quilt. You set yourself up for all sorts of mistakes – which I’ll talk about in a second – and you’re just begging for uncomfortable silences and boring conversation.

Hey, you can make it work. You just make yourself work a LOT harder.

So what should you do instead? Well, best-case scenario you create an instant date. You go from meeting to GOING somewhere, TOGETHER. This can mean moving from the bookstore to a coffee shop, one club to another – or often, to begin, just LEADING a woman from one part of a bar to another.

Create a World

That’s a POWERFUL move. Say you want to tell her something (and have something to tell her). Maybe it can be about something you want to show her at your house, like an album or a book (done subtly, this is a great way to lead to a house call). Take her hand and LEAD her to a more secluded spot.

Don’t put your hands all over her – you look desperate and pervy. But once you’ve led her somewhere, you’ve shifted the world a little bit – you are in it TOGETHER. Maintain strong eye contact. Speak in a quieter, confidential voice (the kind she wants to lean in to hear).

Set yourself up that way, and it should be much easier to get yourself moving to another spot right off the bat. The important thing is that you concentrate not on getting a woman to bed, but on moving to the next step.

Once you’ve got a connection, the next step is changing settings so you reaffirm and strengthen that connection.

This is good in so many ways. It gives you a chance to get to know the girl quickly – which is impressive when it happens quickly, plus it let’s you figure out if the lady is worth your time before you’ve invested much.

It feels natural – something even the best dates fail at.

It’s low-pressure fun – spontaneous, without expectations or commitments.

It’s just great. Not to mention it allows YOU to set the pace you proceed at.

Don’t Push

Now, this isn’t something you ALWAYS do. If a girl is out with her friends you don’t want to impose – in fact, for that reason you should always set a time limit when you’ve started talking with a woman. “I have to get back to my friends in a few minutes, but before that…” or “I have to leave soon, but first…”

If the lady you like seems ready to follow, then you can say “I’m going to xxx, it’s a good spot, you should come. SOMEONE needs to teach you what this city has to offer.” (By the way, this is a KILLER line if you’re not a local.)

Oftentimes the woman won’t be able to join you for whatever reason – could be she’s got plans already, maybe she doesn’t want her girlfriends gossiping, she might just be shy. That’s ok. You can still meet her – but here’s how you do it.

Don’t Be Ordinary

Don’t ask her to dinner. If possible, don’t even ask her in advance. A spontaneous meeting at a coffee shop or going shopping in an eclectic neighborhood with built-in conversation is great.

Your call should sound something like this: “What are you doing right now? I’m about to hit Java Joe’s, you should come and entertain me.” “I’m shopping for some clothes, and I’d like a woman’s opinion. What are you doing now?”

Make sure you’re going somewhere fun. The kind of place with strange knick-knacks all around so you’re conversation can naturally flow from your surroundings. Why do extra work when you can let the atmosphere help you?

Can’t Buy Me Love

THIS is key, and I’ll talk about it again and again. DON’T PAY. Especially with a woman you’ve just met. Paying says all the wrong things.

Women will read it different ways; here’s a few.

It says “I’m not interesting, so I’m bribing you to spend time with me.”

It says “I want to prove I’m good mate material by showing off my financial success.”

Or the corollary: “I’m insecure, so like a man with a small penis and a hot sports car, I’m trying to buy myself some confidence.”

Worse still: “I don’t really know you, but I think you’re hot so I’m going to try and buy my way into your jeans.”

Equally cringe-worthy: “I just paid for you. Now, what are you going to do for ME?”

Oh, let’s not forget the classic: “I’m used to paying for women so they’ll keep me company. Feel free to take advantage of that and bleed me for all I can handle, regardless of whether you like me or not.”

And of course, with a certain sensitive sect of ladies, you’re saying “I’m a sexist pig. Now cook bitch.”

In fact, can you say anything good by paying? Well, you could be saying “I’m a nice, generous man.” Great. We all know by now how sexy that is.

No Early Meals!

This is one of the biggest reasons to avoid the dinner date, at least to begin. In addition to creating an awkward social setting with someone you barely know, you basically force all sorts of uncomfortable thoughts about the money involved.

Coffee? Who cares about a coupla bucks?

Shopping? You’re not going to buy her something, are you? That smells of bribery worse than dinner, and you’ll just make her uneasy.

Avoid putting yourself in situations where the issue of payment comes up, and you’ll avoid this whole can of worms.


Avoid These 8 Types Of Women When Dating or Your Screwed

Posted by: | Posted on: February 1, 2017

A recent survey revealed that fifty two percent of men date for intimacy. Men are looking for that “someone” to get romantically involved with and a potential mate for life.

There are women that a man should avoid dating. Here are signs to watch out for:

1. The overly feminist. This type of woman assumes and believes man is the cause of all the pains and suffering of a society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the correct way”.

Men would not want to spend some time with these types of women, anything that a man will do will always be negative to them. They can never be pleased by a man.

2. The material girl. She is just after the money! These types of women are “high maintenance”. They not just expect, but often demand that a man should finance all her luxuries in life. To her, the man has the responsibility to pay for dinners, drinks, trips, jewelry, flowers etc. while she absolutely feels compulsion or guilt to reciprocate.

Simply put, she is a prostitute in disguise. She is a greedy person, having no perception of the feelings of others and her only concern is achieving and obtaining things that she wants. Never be fooled; some appear to be really nice at first, until they know that you would do anything for them. Then the asking for material things starts!

3. The hopeless romantic. These women live inside a perfect world of romance in novels, where love and relationships are perfect and her night and shining armor will always come and they will live happily ever after.
She has always been pampered by her and considered a “princess,” thus have no idea that what the real life is. She will expect the man to take care of her constantly and that all her wishes be given; if not, she can turn out to be a screaming nag.

4. The angry girl. Similar to the feminist, she actually hates men. They often look down on men accounting a long list of all the injustice and transgressions of every guy that they shared a relationship with. To her, all men are “creeps”, “pigs.” and jerks. These women have boiling rage at men that can, at any given moment explode.

5. The insecure Miss. They will seem to be very pleasant, loving and accommodating at first, treating men very well. Later, when all her innermost insecurities go up the surface, she can be annoyingly calling the man she is dating at least ten times a day, asking where are you, or that she just missed your voice.

This woman demands frequent and persistent reassurance that you love her and you find her attractive; because of this insecurity, she worries continuously about her hair, make up, clothes etc. She can be clingy, needing constant attention and insistently torments you with her thoughts that you will leave her soon if you find someone better.

6. The abstract or elusive type. She is romantic but with a mysteriously dark side. She has been hurt in past relationships and has not gone over it. These bad experiences drive her to subconsciously stay way from or damage her new relationship.

She will be very frustrating to deal with, as at first, she will show a lot of interest with the man, however runs away very quickly; she will repeat this cycle again and again. She will date and flirt with the man, but will insist that they both remain as friends.

7. The desperate Miss. She is desperate to get married. She does not even choose to know the man; she just wants to trap him and bring him to the nearest altar!

8. The controlling type. She can be very nasty in a very subtle way, but when given the opportunity, will direct each phase of a man’s life. She will always have a “say” as to what the man wears, where must the man go, who should the man talk to, who can a man have as friends, what a man can and can not eat; as in everything! The man can not insist on his own rights or else, there will be no sex, a lot of crying, screaming, pouting and everything just so the man will give in.

To all men, careful!


5 Dazzling Ways to Make Any Woman Fall In Love With You

Posted by: | Posted on: February 1, 2017

“I don’t get it!…”

“I’ve a nice car. I’m accomplished. My A-List CV make the next guy look funky. I even
wear the latest Armani! Why doesn’t she flip for me? Why am I always alone??”

STOP!

How many times did you pound the dashboard of your Corvette bewailing this persistent question?

The avenue to Romance is littered with roadkill hearts and unrequited love.If you think you’re unique in your loneliness, think again. There is enough dashboard pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress.

But don’t despair. Before you spin out of control, deploy the airbags fast. These strategic maneuvers should cruise you back on track:

1) Dress to Kill – all the time: No I don’t intend that You  wear that $5000 suit to the grocers or the Rolex to walk the dog. What I want you to do is is to dress decently each time  you hit the streets. Dab on some cologne. Be neatly shaven. Men, women are everywhere. If you dress with flash only at the bar or the party, you’re missing out on 95% of eligible women. Some of the best relationships were forged during chance encounters at the bus stop.

2) Bedroom Eyes – When exploring new relationships with that sexy stranger, intensify the eye contact. Lock deep into her pupils. Let the rest of the world disappear even as a horde of supermodels troop by. You will naturally thrill her with the attention as she experiences the tendrils of growing attraction. Ethnologists have a term for it, the copulatory gaze. Get your eyes even sexier by enlargening your pupils. Dr. Hess concluded that dilated pupils are far far more attractive to women after he presented hundreds of assorted pictures of men to test subjects. How does one get the pupils popping? Simply gaze at the most alluring parts of her face and fill your mind with loving caring thoughts. Your pupils naturally grow, endowing you with irresistible eyes.

3) Visual Caress –  Get your eyes do some facial travelling as you chat. Linger a bit on the nose, traipse across the eyes and rest at the lips. Drink in her facial features as though you were admiring the Mona Lisa. She will delight in the attention!

4) Easter Eggs – Stumped at having nothing to say? Listen carefully for easter eggs as you talk. These are unusual words of phrases that she utters. Ask her to expound on it. Say “What’s the story behind that?” or “How do you feel about that?”. Women love to be probed for their opinions and their feelings.Gently bring out her emotions with sensitive open-ended questions.

5) Keep it Adrenaline Charged – Men talk facts: stock figures, bill payments, and boring engine specs. Women are different. They delight in FEELINGS TALK: how the new dress takes them to 7th heaven, how that special meal got them all giddy with ecstasy, how their shopping expedition drains their deepest problems away. Leverage this by steering away from facts talk. Pick out emotionally charged subjects and ask her how she especially relates to them. You’ll be her new confidant!

I know what you’re thinking. It’s all common sense! That’s true, but ask yourself this: how many of you actually practice this? Be honest.

Get out there and be the man that women want. Use your common sense!


Watch Out These are the 3 Categories Women Put You In Before You Meet

Posted by: | Posted on: January 26, 2017

When approaching women, even before you have said a word or done anything she has already unconsciously put you into one of three categories:

I Like Him

I Don’t Like Him

Undecided

Now that you are aware of the three different categories lets go over each ones strengths and weaknesses for you.

Category #1: I like Him: If you happen to look or remind her of someone that she liked, dress in a certain type of way that she finds attractive or anything else that she happens to connect with. Congrats you have a heads up on everyone and when it comes to taking it to the next level its all On You. This is a great thing and if you fall in the Average Guy category expect this to happen with around 10 percent of the women that you meet who are available.

Category #2: I Don’t Like Him: You ever meet someone and for no apparent or real good reason you don’t like them?

Guess what women are the same way and for good measure most women throw unconfident men and a whole slew of petty reasons in there as well. If you fall in this category and at least 10 percent of the time you will if your just an average guy, unless you have some unknown outside factor to enhance you (hot ex still after you, famous, rich, etc.); there is nothing you can say or do that is going to get this woman to change her mind and be attracted to you.

Category #3: Undecided: The majority of the times about 80 percent is you are an average guy you are going to fall in this Category which if you have done your studying and reading on seduction and how to attract women is a perfect place to be. Because as long as you are in the Undecided category you can work on creating the desire and attraction in a woman that you want. This is very good news for you my friend.

Of course the time is now for you to get your life in order so that when you walk up to a woman that you find to be a potential partner and she is thinking to herself maybe or maybe not over the course of a cup of coffee or tea you can turn that maybe into a yeas and increase your success with women tremendously.


Overcoming Rejection A Guide For Guys

Posted by: | Posted on: January 24, 2017

Overcoming rejection is one of the hardest things for a person to face.  What most girls don’t understand is that it takes a lot of courage to ask one of them out.  When they are polite and are nice about saying no that’s one thing.  But, when they laugh as if you weren’t worthy of them, that’s quite another thing.  This article will walk you through overcoming rejection.

An alpha male will walk into a bar confident that he will go home with one of the lovely ladies there.  And he does.  He plunges right into the scene and soon all of the girls are flocking around him.  He seems to have his choice of dates.

You, on the other hand, sit in the shadows nursing a beer.  You survey the scene.  After you have some liquid courage in you, you approach a woman.  She says she’s not interested.  Perhaps she even laughs.  Then you either go back to your corner or leave the bar.

What makes the alpha male so different and what can you learn from him about overcoming rejection.

First of all, the alpha male may face rejection five, six, or seven times that night, but he plunges on ahead.  He doesn’t sit in the corners, he’s at the middle of the crowd.  If he sees a woman he likes, he toys with her.  He’s the bad boy every girl wants.

If one girl says no to him, he drops her and pursues another.  He’s confident that one of the lovelies will be in his bed that evening.

The secret here is that he is overcoming rejection all night long.  He doesn’t take it personally.  In fact, he’s so sure of himself that if a woman says no, that’s her loss.

Now, one of the personality traits of this alpha male is that he’s pretty self centered.  His relationships don’t tend to last long.  But he doesn’t care because there are lots of other beautiful fish in the sea.

You, on the other hand, are a more sensitive soul.  While in the short term, you would like a girl to go home with you, what you really want is a long term relationship.  That is why each rejection stings so badly.  You are not looking for a dozen women in your life, you just want to find one special one.

But in order to find her, you are going to have to ask many women out.  Embrace rejection, don’t try to overcome it.  Don’t fixate on one woman – whether it is in a bar or in your life at large.  Be confident and approach a number of women.  Until you have a woman who is interested enough in you to be your full time girlfriend, you should be keeping your eyes out for all possibilities.

The best way to go about overcoming rejection is to embrace it.


Building Your Confidence in Dating Women

Posted by: | Posted on: January 15, 2017

When it comes to dating (or even seducing) a woman, confidence is vital. Women often equate “self confidence” with the ability to be successful. While many men believe that women look for successful men because they’re likely to make more money, that’s simply not true.

While it’s a given, women actually look for successful men because they’re more likely to be satisfied. So you may be wondering what a man being satisfied has to do with anything. Let me explain. You see, women know that men who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable.

And in a relationship that means a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember that most women are looking for a man who will be their partner as well as their lover.

Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you’re both equals.

When it comes to confidence, it seems there are two kinds of people – those who have it and others who simply don’t. Although on the surface this may be true, everyone has the potential to be “self confident”, or motivated if you would like to call it.

Take heart in knowing that you’re a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you find to be positive character traits that you have. Be comforted to know that NOT all women are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a man who’s confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to a relationship with them!